{"id":1083,"date":"2020-01-31T04:43:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T10:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/?p=1083"},"modified":"2020-01-30T16:44:41","modified_gmt":"2020-01-30T22:44:41","slug":"what-happened-to-moderation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/what-happened-to-moderation\/","title":{"rendered":"What happened to moderation?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/black-and-white-people-bar-men-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1084\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/black-and-white-people-bar-men-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/black-and-white-people-bar-men-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/black-and-white-people-bar-men-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/black-and-white-people-bar-men-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/lindagorchels.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/black-and-white-people-bar-men.jpg 1880w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember growing up believing that moderation was a <em>good<\/em> thing. Eating and drinking were rarely good or bad per se, as long not done to excess. Sunshine was a healthy source of vitamin D, if exposure was limited to avoid sunburn. Working hard was valued, but so were social connections with family and friends. And the middle class was large and relevant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But that was then, and this is now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019re living in an increasingly polarized society. The far\nright and far left are growing at the expense of the center. Economic\ninequality is creating <em>haves<\/em> and <em>have-nots<\/em> to the detriment of\nthe <em>have-somes<\/em>. And posts to news articles are pro or con, black or\nwhite. Social media has enabled people to live within their chosen bubbles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While there is nothing wrong with having a strongly held\nopinion, there is a need to\u2014at least occasionally\u2014be open to different\nperspectives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think about social media reactions to news articles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s one example. Comments following a narrative about\nmicro-schools with mixed-age classrooms were predictable. Most suggested that\neither <em>all<\/em> traditional public education is bad, or <em>all<\/em>\nalternative approaches are bad. There weren\u2019t too many in the middle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The extremes follow other stories, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Corporations are evil and government is necessary to oversee\nthem. Government is evil and society would be better run by corporations. Can\u2019t\nthey learn something from each other?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And there seems to be precious middle-ground in terms of\nguns, healthcare, or the environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t even bring up religion!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even work-life balance can\u2019t escape politics. A recent\nSociety for Human Resource Management survey found that over 40% of American\nworkers have <a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2020\/01\/28\/798593323\/i-cant-work-with-you-how-political-fights-leave-workplaces-divided\">political\ndisagreements at work<\/a>. &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whew!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are no easy answers, but here are two options. One\napproach favors striving to listen to\u2014without bias, defending, or attacking\u2014the\nopposing viewpoints. One Small Step and Local Voices Network fall into this\ncamp. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/storycorps.org\/discover\/onesmallstep\/\">One Small Step<\/a> is a podcast devoted to stories about people from opposite ends of the political spectrum coming together to share lifestyles, experiences and perspectives.\u00a0It\u2019s a Storycorps podcast series designed to \u201ccounter contempt and dehumanization with acts of listening and engagement.\u201d<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/lvn.org\/\">Local Voices Network<\/a> is a program that organizes small-group, in-person, local conversations. Experienced conversation hosts engage local participants at libraries, community centers and in homes to explore diverse (and often under-represented) opinions. A YouTube video from the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?time_continue=81&amp;v=Hl4dzcFNShQ&amp;feature=emb_logo\">Boston chapter<\/a> highlights this process of creating a space for conversation. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>The other approach favors finding common ground on\nnon-political topics. Avoid discussing politics at work, for example, as\nexplained by The Balance Careers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A recent article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebalancecareers.com\/why-and-how-to-avoid-talking-politics-at-work-4115847\">The Balance Careers<\/a> suggests diverting conversations away from politics. Talk about a recent vacation, books or movies of interest, or perhaps a new restaurant you experienced. Look for shared interests that change the dynamic of the dialog.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Moderation is still my preferred approach to life. But it might not be our new reality. 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